I am stuck at a point where I want to choose one of the 2 options I have regarding a certain some-thing.
I am not able to decide and have been pondering over it for quite some time.
The heart or the head is not giving any hints or leaning in any direction. Neither is the universe!
Does that happen to you? Stuck in an impasse?
Just then I came across this pic on FB (again! I know I am a social media addict!).
Hmmm so is this the sign the universe is sending?Β Maybe!
Hmmm..maybe. Change the direction and think of a third option, it could work out. Sometimes, we have a certain idea in mind and close out our options in other areas. Try brainstorming and opening out the unexplored. You might get your answer π
So that is what I did Uma. Paused and changed direction, took a middle path and it worked this time π
Yay! good that you found the path that worked for you. All the best!
Hey Simran,
Yes it happens with most of us,and more because we think too much of the options.So,what I do is stop thinking about it for a day(if I have that much time)and then start to rethink about it the next day with a fresh mind.I get the answer.
If that doesn’t work,you should speak to someone whom I am close to .And I surely find a way out.And then am in a better position to decide.
Yes Anuja, sometimes I sleepover things that bother me. There is almost nothing that a sleepover cannot cure π
The more we contemplate the more we find us in a mess π
Sigh! True. All these thoughts are creations of the mind…. sometimes a jobless mind sometimes a super busy one π
oh my gosh, Simran… you kind of hit the nail on the head (my head) – am in the throes of one such decision. Now a third choice – to not choose any of the 2????
does it have something to do with what we have been talking about..:) if you are okay, we can talk tomorrow, I could be some help.!
No no! Not that one Manasa π that I am sure of. This is mostly new home related!!
I agree with Pallavi! Sometimes, when I’m in a real crux, I make a list of pros and cons for both options. By the time I’m done with it, I know which side my heart is leaning on.
True Achala! The listing down and seeing it in front of you really helps at times. And yet at other times the heart decided it all for you π